What to Do:
1. Be positive. Picture your dream partner and what they will be like. Make a list of traits and remember that personality traits are more important that physical, though those are important as well. Wake up every morning seeing the day ahead as an opportunity to better yourself and your life, while at the same time helping others as well.
2. Improve yourself. Learn a language, read more (find the types of books that you are passionate about, there are books for EVERYONE!), stay busy and make your life great. If there are negative people/bullies, in your life, slowly start distancing yourself from them. It may feel a little awkward at first, but you will flourish in your new positive environment.
3.Be proactive. Most people take a passive role when it comes to love. I think of it as a numbers game; if you are moving about in circles of people like you (same interests, values, etc.) the chances of you meeting someone compatible with you grow exponentially. I say exponentially because through every new person you may meet 3 more people -so meet 3 new people and that potentially means that you could meet 12 people total. And then those new people may introduce more! It is a chain reaction. I don't like the idea of sitting back and waiting for something to happen. Leonardo da Vinci said, "People of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them, they went out and happened to things." This is the attitude that I agree to take with love. But for some, it is good enough to sit back and wait to see what the current on life brings.
3.Be proactive. Most people take a passive role when it comes to love. I think of it as a numbers game; if you are moving about in circles of people like you (same interests, values, etc.) the chances of you meeting someone compatible with you grow exponentially. I say exponentially because through every new person you may meet 3 more people -so meet 3 new people and that potentially means that you could meet 12 people total. And then those new people may introduce more! It is a chain reaction. I don't like the idea of sitting back and waiting for something to happen. Leonardo da Vinci said, "People of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them, they went out and happened to things." This is the attitude that I agree to take with love. But for some, it is good enough to sit back and wait to see what the current on life brings.
